| | Re: About to go through another breakup!
Thanks, guys, for all the advice. He's my best friend in the world, but he has told me he is not happy with the way things are. I told him from the beginning I would need time and space and the more I got to know him, the more comfortable I felt around him and the more we got along. My ex and I didn't have the relationship he and I have, we can just sit and be. My ex was a firefighter, hockey player, a go go go person and this guy is more like me. He puts me and my daughter above everything else and with my ex we were second. Do you think maybe I was just in love with what my ex couldn't give me? That certainly makes sense and I still have this gnawing feeling in my gut that I'm not giving him what he wants and that I need to cut the strings, for his sake. I have gone through serious breakups (obviously) and I'm so scared of hurting again, esp with the cold weather and holidays coming that makes it even more depressing.