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Old 03-08-2007, 04:04 PM   #1
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Angry very angry at relative!

my mom was over just now and I was going on and on about my personal issues, saying how things never go my way etc. We then made an agreement to go to the mall so that I can get my mind off the stress, before we left I used the bathroom, when I came out she had left my apartment and her car was gone. She did not leave a message nor did she call me. I feel deeply offended and very angry and hurt by her childish behavior.
Does anybody have any advice for me?

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Old 03-08-2007, 04:23 PM   #2
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Re: very angry at relative!

There's has to be something more to this.

Did you have a mini argument with her...before you went to the bathroom?

I mean....it only takes like what...a minute to go ****, right? There is no way she can just rush out the door that fast.

unless there is something else that is upsetting her.

If she's not calling you......then you call her.

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Old 03-08-2007, 08:21 PM   #3
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Re: very angry at relative!

I think I talked way too much about myself and it made her very anxious.

BUT later I called her and she said she felt like she was going to vomit and she said her heart was beating very fast and she felt real sick. She did invite me to drop by tomorrow..thank God...I thought she had abandoned me.

My guess about her "Sick feelings" is that I was making her feel very anxious and uncomfortable because I was talking on and on about myself.

 
Old 03-09-2007, 11:10 AM   #4
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Re: very angry at relative!

It sounds like she had a panic attack.

Parents are supposed to be supportive and listen to you, but as I learned with my own mother, sometimes there are things they just would rather not know. My mom is the worrying type, and she'd rather have her head in the sand and think everything is rainbows and lollipops instead of knowing about all of my little forays into darkness. Maybe your mother is the same way. Perhaps she isn't the best person to confess ALL of your bad feelings to.
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Old 03-09-2007, 11:33 AM   #5
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Re: very angry at relative!

My Mother is the Queen of childish. It sounds like something she would do! I don't know your Mom that well but is it possible she may have had an emergency and just hasn't called you back yet? I know your probably thinking "if you knew her you would know she did it on purpose!" If that is the case I think it was terrible of her to do that! I know some people would tell me maybe your Mom didn't want to her your problems, but if you can't confide in family who can you confide in! If she didn't want to hear it she should have pretended to act concerned and offer to take you too the mall. I think it's fine to be mad. Than again I am still mad at my Mother for her outburst so maybe I am just bitter. I just think that she is your Mother that doesn't give her the right to treate you like crap because she gave birth to you.

 
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