So, I dated this guy for about 4 months and things were really good but at the same time we fought a ton. Eventually, the fighting got to be too much and we broke up. Its been about 4 months since then. We go to school together, so we each other all the time but havent really spoken since the breakup. All of a sudden, he has started contacting me again. We have talked everyday for hours on end about everything under the sun. I sort of assumed he was missing me, perhaps wanting to try things again and while I was confused by all of this I thought he knew what he was doing.
Tonight we had a conversation where essentially he was fairly disrepectful to me. Then I asked him what was going on between us and he told me he hadnt had a chance to think about it all. I find this to be really ridiculous since he is the one who has been contacting me. I think I should just stop talking to him altogether. I went into talking to him not even interested in anything more and now I feel rejected , confused and hurt all over again that I am not worth it to him to even think about wanting to be with again.
Please DON'T WASTE UR PRECIOUS TIME with this guy.
He doesn't even know what his doing... Don't talk to him anymore
and move on with your life. You've been together for 4 months...
just 4 months and you got a lot of fights??? How can it be?
As I believe 4 months are months of still gettin to know u and sweet stuffs
about each other.
Respect is very important in a relationship so if he disrepect u
why do u have to waste ur time???
This boy doesn't know what he wants at the moment. Tell him to leave you alone and get his act together. Maybe down the track if he matures a bit, there may be a chance of something happening, but at the moment, he is too confused.
If all you did was fight, and if he can't give you a straight answer about what's going on, then he's not your friend. you were only together 4 months. There's no rule set in stone that says exes HAVE to stay friends.