Your still young, in my 20s all I was looking for with any gender was friends, anything more was not going to happen, I know many guys who wonted to date me in university yet all I was looking to be was their friend, so they moved on to other girls o date but we stayed friends (till more times then naught their new girl got wind of it and gave a choice them or me ::rolls eyes:
Anyhow, many males go though various stages of being the friend yet not getting the girl, but you will find that one person who is right for you in time. I know my husband thought he'd never find the person of his dreams, the one who could be his best friend, lover and eventually his wife, took him being other girls friends for many years till we meet and even then he though I was just going to be another friend of his that would move on once I found another I liked better but still keep in occasional touch.
Little did we know what the future was to hold for us as a couple. Yes we are each other's best friend, yes we are each other's lover and we are now married. But before all else we are friends, I can't imagin being with anyone who wasn't a good and strong friend first before all else, the idea of making love or having sex with someone you are not connected with just doesn't work for me.
So be the friend, be the gentalman and in short be who you are in time someone who is right for you will be there when you least think of it and you'll wonder whyit took so long, but in the end you will be glad for the time it took.