I can't really find a better section to write about this than here in relationship health, though it's not about the opposite sex.
I've had a genuine friend, more like lunch buddy at work, for years. Now new people have been hired, more girls, and my friend's been talking and hanging out with them as well. I tried to be part of it but I can't connect with none of them, I find that genuine characteristic is lacking and I don't like superficiality.
Well, now, things have changed...I am not even going to her b.day lunch cuz those girls set it up and I just can't see how she's overlooking a number of things about some of them that she used to point out to me at the beginning. She told me she didn't give them a chance and they are actually a lot of fun, but I don't see it as genuine. Anyway, I told her and she doesn't mind, but I feel I have lost that relationship with her and am sad that we don't see through the same frame anymore.
I am surprised that people change but I don't change with them...