What does this mean? - Relationship Health Message Board

chocolate29 · 01-30-2008, 08:11 PM

I hope this is the appropriate place to put this.

There is this guy that I know for a fact likes me. We've been friends for a few years now, lately, for the past couple of times I have run across him he really tries to avoid me. Like, he's afraid of something or something. I don't know.
Any suggestions?
I know, it's so little to go by.

shorti · 01-30-2008, 08:50 PM

well, you're friends, so i assume you have his number yeah? maybe you can call him or invite him to the movies. then you can talk to him about how your feeling etc.

Seraph · 01-30-2008, 09:19 PM

You will never find out if you don't ask him. Just say, "What's up?" On the basis of a long standing friendship, this is not out of the normal range of responses to him. It could be anything, may have nothing to do with you personally; maybe he is under stress or something.

chocolate29 · 01-31-2008, 05:28 AM

Hmmm....thanks guys
I'm such a novice when it comes to men. I've really had next to none experience so I really am not sure what's going on but, you've given me something to think about. Thanks

apple_juice · 01-31-2008, 05:33 AM

Hello Hannah

How do you know he likes you? Has he said anything in the past? Or has a mutual friend told you?
I know I try to avoid people who I know like me because I get very shy. Maybe he knows you know he likes you so he is shy and nervous around you.
Do you like him? Do you want to pursue something with him?