Re: Crazy Stuff
ALL of those issues are exactly as you said...petty. Drinking and driving is the worst part, but then no one should do that and we have all been somewhat guilty of it after a glass of wine or so....I don't know how much you are invested in this....but why do you let these things the daughter says get to you? Ignore her. If you have to ask your G/F what was said by the daughter I am guessing that she isn't starting fights with you because of her daughters opinion and if you don't want to hear that she agrees with her then don't ask. I think you might be expecting to please the daughter, but that doesn't seem likely at this time.
I would just go on like I didnt know there any conflict and if your G/F brings it up then tell her until she has a legitimate problem with you then you will listen...otherwise keep it between the two of them.
If all this petty stuff is bothering you enough, maybe you should look for a new girlfriend who doesn't have a daughter who wants to put ideas in the moms head over nonsense.