Guys do that so they don't have to deal with all the emotion it will cause. They don't want to deal with crying or questions. They find it easier to be cruel and make you break up so they save face. It's immature and pathetic really.
If I were you I would call him out on it and then dump his sorry butt. You deserve better!
Well I for one noticed that when ever I break up with a woman she goes Stalker on me....as if she is thinking "No one breaks up with me...". So I find it easier to push one or more of their buttons to make them break up with me, once they say the word I agree quickly call it quits and move on fast.
This one girl I wanted to break up with had a lot of her stuff at my house. So I packed everything up in a bag invited her over and pushed the button. She got mad and I helped her along to say the "Break Up" words, once she did I went up stairs got her bag of stuff...[which she thought she would have the pleasure of gathering to rub it in] and in 2 seconds gave her the bag and ushered her out the door. I will never forget the look on her face. I think I did it too quick because she played the stalker role for awhile, but after a month or so she finally moved on....
so there are guys who doesn't want to tell the girl they want out but yea at the same time keep using them till the girl says it's over????
if so Why do they do that?? huh i guess they are trying to make themselves look good for the next relationship i guess.
Oh, absolutely. Most men will do that. They do it because they do not see women as fellow human beings. They see us as just these warm pieces of meat here for nothing but their pleasure. Even the best of men will treat "the wrong" woman this way, out of fear or cowardice or because "well, she will go all stalker on me." Unfortunately what they don't understand, or maybe what they don't want to understand, is that having that uncomfortable break up talk, with dignity and honesty, is what stops most women from doing the "stalker" thing. Of course there are unstable women out there who do go off, but 9 times out of 10, a "psycho bunny boiler" is nothing but a woman who was lied to, treated badly, and who had her humanity stepped on and just wants answers and some closure. But once you accept this about men, dealing with how they treat you becomes much easier and you get to a point where you don't even really care what they think of you or whether they are interested or not. You'll learn to weed out the ones that aren't worth your time pretty quickly and move on as easily and heartlessly as they do, and when the right one comes along, you'll know.
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