Originally Posted by hottstuff1
... but I just need some advice..thanks
Oh, yes, that seems a lot to deal with at the same time. But do you know the old saying: "It is an ill wind that blows nobody any good"? Try to see things in these terms. Maybe that was the best arragement for your parents. Maybe breaking up with that guy was the best thing for you at the moment. Concentrate on your studies as best as you can, although I imagine that can be a little difficult for you now, especially if you are an only child. Try not to take sides. Listen to both mom and dad, so they can vent, but don't accuse anyone (even if you know for sure one of them made the biggest mistake) and don't present yourself as a victim of their separation. Separations are often dramatic, but there doesn't need to be physical violence and verbal abuse. Be strong. Cry and mourn if you have to, but go on with your life as well. You will survive.