I would really like your input and suggestions concerning what is going on in my life.....so as some of you know i got out of a bad relationship a few months back, but thanks to whorl of the world I am back dating again
....anyways i work part-time at the hospital and go to school full time....since i started working at the hospital I began to having a "crush" on a co-worker of mine.....I know work relationships can be difficult but they also can be lovely (given the maturity of each individual). anyways i want to get to know him outside of work but... a) i am scared to approach him for something other than work issues. b) well A is enough
anyways let me give you a little more detail. he is older than i am, much older....i would say by about 18 years.....he is super intelligent (at least in my pov). I don't know if he has a girlfriend or not. I am not willing to ask around b/c people have a tendency to put two and two together and blow it up.....he and i hardly work together, so we hardly talk....he works the night shift during the week and i work the night shift on the weekends....we only work together when he picks up a shift for someone else.
the only dialogue that takes place between us is when he says something like "studying?" and i reply "yes"......it is hard to invoke further conversation......so what do you guys suggest? should i forget about my crush and focus on other things or pursue what i want? and if i do go after what i want how should i go about getting to know him better????
any thoughts would be appreciated!!