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Old 08-18-2008, 04:42 PM   #1
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the guy i'm seeing wants to see me again but does not put any effort into it

the guy i'm seeing wants to see me again but does not put any effort into it

 
Old 08-18-2008, 10:08 PM   #2
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Re: the guy i'm seeing wants to see me again but does not put any effort into it

Could you elaborate a bit more? Like maybe how long you've been seeing each other, how serious, and exactly what you mean by his not putting any effort into it. I know it would help me to give a better opinion. Thanks.

 
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Old 08-19-2008, 01:35 PM   #3
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Re: the guy i'm seeing wants to see me again but does not put any effort into it

so why are you wasting your time?

 
Old 08-19-2008, 01:40 PM   #4
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Re: the guy i'm seeing wants to see me again but does not put any effort into it

More details will help. But in all honesty, if you are making all of the effort then chances are he isn't as into you as you are him. And if this is the beginning of your "dating" then take this as a red flag to run the other way.

 
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Re: the guy i'm seeing wants to see me again but does not put any effort into it

Yes, it really isn't as complicated as we women like to make it. If he truly wanted to see you, he'd make the effort. See? simple. Stop doing all the heavy lifting, go out on a girls' night out and have fun, and then find yourself a guy who REALLY wants to see you, and then does.

 
Old 08-19-2008, 05:09 PM   #6
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Re: the guy i'm seeing wants to see me again but does not put any effort into it

I got tired of putting up with people like that...I finally realized that people are where they want to be. I feel like this about my own mother...if she really wanted me in her life, she would not play games with me. Don't waste your time with this guy...go get someone that makes you feel happy!

 
Old 08-19-2008, 05:26 PM   #7
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Re: the guy i'm seeing wants to see me again but does not put any effort into it

Thanks to all that replied!! I am going to take every ones advice and get on with my life. If he wants to see me, he will have to make the contacts and travel. I feel I am better than what he is treating me! Thanks Again

 
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