Re: Don't what this is and has upset my girlfriend(gf)
I had a boyfriend who would literally answer and hang up if I called him during the day at all. He had a low-demand job, and I would be checking for plans about dinner or something I actually needed info from him, but occasionally would call with a funny story or notable.
In this situation, I - the caller - was in the wrong.
I think no one likes being nagged, but everyone wants to feel like their love interest always WANTS to hear their voice, so its a tough thing about love...
I'm glad you all worked it out, but make sure at the end of the day, you've been respectful and respected.