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Old 08-23-2008, 02:24 PM   #1
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Major update, only to those who have followed my threads.

This is just to those who followed my other threads.

You know how the majority of my internal problems and insecurities came from my abnormally high voice (at the age of 20)? And how it was really a problem with my mental wiring, so it uses the high voice instead of the low voice, well i finally got the courage and i changed it two days ago.

Its still taking some getting used to, might be quite a few weeks, but its a start, and i need to take it. It has ruined my life for so many years now. Just thought id share that.

 
Old 08-23-2008, 04:35 PM   #2
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Re: Major update, only to those who have followed my threads.

yay Lazer! That's great news! Did you have surgery?

 
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Old 08-23-2008, 05:14 PM   #3
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Re: Major update, only to those who have followed my threads.

Yea Lazer I am pulling for you too! 20 is too young to sit by and let something like this ruin these wonderful years you have ahead of you!! Good Luck and keep us updated!

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Re: Major update, only to those who have followed my threads.

Nope no surgery, i would be too scared for that anyway lol. I mentioned before that its some weird defense my body set up, because i have a rare form of GERD that is non-stop, and when my voice was supposed to change during puberty, my larynx tightened itself up to prevent the stomach acids from reaching my throat. Which resulted in that high voice.

I have always been able to make a low pitch tone. But it just didnt feel natural. It still doesnt feel natural to be honest, but the doctor said the body takes 3 or so weeks to make something a habit. I just need to completely change it one day, and give my body time to "rewire" my brain, so it naturally uses my low voice, rather than my high voice.

I just didnt have the courage to change it.

 
Old 08-25-2008, 12:41 PM   #5
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Re: Major update, only to those who have followed my threads.

I had to speak up in class the past few days. For the first time i didnt feel like i stood out negatively. I still got a rush because i was nervous, but afterward i wasnt beating myself up.

 
Old 08-26-2008, 06:26 AM   #6
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Re: Major update, only to those who have followed my threads.

Good for you Lazer! I'm so proud of you. Keep it up. Once you get through this you will see that other things will become easier for you. It's all about baby steps and not being affraid to make changes for you.

 
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Re: Major update, only to those who have followed my threads.

Good for you!

Now use your new deep voice and tell that kooky g/f of yours to hit the road!

 
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