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Old 09-05-2008, 10:11 PM   #1
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Friend maybe messed this up for me??

i need ur opinions please. Last week my friend and i where eatin lunch at the student union at my college and long story short someone took our seats and there was this girl sitting at the next table and i asked if we could join. All went well. i got the #. That was like friday of last week. My friend has like called her a bunch(she mostly never picked up) and like always was talkin to her at school. I havent called her at all sense i got the #(only a week ago b/c of the following..

The last few days i have talked to her on Instant Message when ever i got home(been like 11 or 12 at night). Everytime we talked is was smooth and stuff and then she started say like how "ur friend is weird, he like asks me stuff about like what kind of guys i like and stuff" and "he doesn't like "like" me does he cause i hope not". so, after that she has been kind hard to talk to.

My question....did he mess it up for me? and what should i do. I mean im genuinely interested in her but after that^ i dont wanna just ask her out

 
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Old 09-06-2008, 07:04 AM   #2
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Re: Friend maybe messed this up for me??

Maybe you could tell him straight out that all the attention he is giving her is creeping her out and could he back off a bit? She would appreciate your help there and I think this may be what she is asking for.

I don't think he "ruined" it for you, but I also don't think he is helping you either, if you know what I mean?

 
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Old 09-06-2008, 07:15 AM   #3
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Re: Friend maybe messed this up for me??

Yeah i defiantly agree with you there. SHould i just give it a few days to calm down cause like...maybe a day ago i could of called her up and asked her out and she prob would of said yes but after our little talk last night that "vibe" was gone(if that makes sense.) Thanks

 
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