HI all I am looking for some advice please
My partner lives 200 miles away, struggling to sell a house and finances are in a mess due to past partner. Partner wants to move and sell the house but current market isn't helping.
My problem is this....
My soloution to problem is get job that pays more money everyones happy.
I suggested take the house off the market until it gets better (as also suggested by estate agent) and move to where I live where my partner can do the same job earning almost double the wage. renting the house isn't an option as the location wouldn't bring much in to cover the mortgage and getting a lodger isn't ideal either as my partner lives far out in the sticks.
we have been together 9 months and where I live there are more job opportinuities and alot more interaction and things to do also we were planning a baby together. I wouldnt need any money aside from paying the bills, that way my partner would be able to still have security of own home, earn more money to pay the mortgage and be able to have a taste at living together.....if it doesn't work then at least the house is still there and only items of clothing need to be put back.
Partner says doesnt want to move as too much hassle, yet I was prepared to move to a place where I didnt know anyone and the wage was crap in comparison almost 5K less for the same jobs and to a town that I didnt know, all just to be with partner.
But at least my partner has friends in my location and has lived here before.....at first it was due to an oversized hound that the move couldn't be made now hound has been given away I don't see what the excuse is
Am I being unreasonable???