Re: My ex doesn't stop calling
Well, it's almost like being a diabetic and loving/wanting to have sugar.
This girlfriend is like sugar for you (assuming that you are a diabetic). You can't have it (her), because that is very harmful for you. What do you do then? You simply decide not to touch it ever again. Or at least until you can fix your diabetes.
In other words, cut all the possible contact with this person. If it is easier for you, pretend that you have moved into another country and are out of her reach for all practical purposes. I know it is hard for you, and it'll be harder in the first days. But think that is essential for your own health. Health is life.
Ok, I am trying to make the problem appear simpler than it really is. But honestly, it's also a question of discipline, of not giving in.
Maybe you should break up with your boy-friend, too. Or at least stay away from him for some time. You are confused. You badly need time for yourself.
Check to see how you can open a new perspective for your life, either through studies, acquisition of a skill/profession, or finding a suitable job for you. It's very important to keep yourself busy, so that temptations are easier to resist.
You could also try therapy, but therapy can be long and painful. You need a quicker relief. Maybe it'd be better for you to pick some physical activity, instead. Reshape your body as best as you can. I am not telling you to become a model, because that's insanity. LOL. But being fit and healthy will do good to your self-esteem. You are able to do something for yourself. Just start and keep going on, even if the results are not immediate.
Last edited by pendulum; 09-08-2008 at 11:00 AM.