Re: what do you make of this?
for myself it doesnt make me fear marriage. this is one couple, and although i know many couples dealing with infidelity, everyone is unique and i absolutely believe in marriage etc.
my friend also said she now knows her hubby wanted to see this woman the day they flew out for their holiday, and visited her the day after they returned. coupled with his voicing that he had missed her while they were on holiday, she sees this woman as more than just a physical relationship for her hubby.
she has not confronted him yet, she is considering what she wants to do. i know them both well, and he is actually a nice man, despite his current actions. if i had to play devil's advocate, i would say my friend is quite an unusal person... although i love her dearly i know many people see her as a cold person and part of me does wonder if he has gone looking for affection elsewhere. having said that, i totally do not condone his actions, as my belief is if you need to cheat, end the relationship!
is there hope for them? i dont know. i know they have had quite a few rocky years, but am certain this is the first time he has strayed.