Originally Posted by bluesky123
So, that's it?
Are you going to talk to him about what is going on between you two?
Or are you simply going over there to pick up DVDs and leaving it at that?
Well, I am going to feel him out when I talk to him next week since both of us are going out of town this weekend. I am hoping we will have some kind of conversation about us. I at least want to tell him I think I gave him the wrong impression about what I want with him. When I like someone, I eventually want more with them...and you guys are right..I never told him that and even if he doesn't want the same thing I would like him to know the only reason I have been seeing him for this long is because it was something more to me.
If i am just being really "casual" with someone I do not let it go on for months because to me...what is the point really? Maybe a few weeks...but thats it. I don't mean to offend anyone with that comment. If you are able to be in something casual for a long time without it bothering you...there is nothing wrong with that.
I am hoping to just talk things over, get my dvds and be on my way. What more can I really do?
I mean I ALMOST want to say something else to him too. I mean it is kind of obvious this guy does not really want to see me anymore..but instead of just telling me he was probably just going to stop talking to me..i know this because I have been making all contacting effort. It bothers me so much how people will just take the "easy" way out for them and then just leave someone hanging. Why don't I just lay down and let him walk all over me?