I have been with my bf for over 5 years now but our relationship has changed so much, I feel that he does not love me anymore. Certainly, he does not show me that he does. We hardly have intimate times now...drowned in material issues although we both have decent professional jobs..There is just NOTHING to look forward to together. He is a stubborn type of person and this is so incredibly frustrating. I can't have an adult conversation with him. I don't want to lose him but I am struggling to make sense of my life here. He never talks of our future together... it is just today that he thinks of, which is ok but I feel terribly insecure about what tomorrow may bring. I am in my 30s and he never mentions future plans ..
I wish I could live life to the max, fly around the world, share a good laugh with him but I have started to feel very withdrawn, and extremely unmotivated. Good times have just gone, and they seem so far away...How can I make him love me again? I feel that he treats other girls, no matter how un/attractive they are, with a tons more interest than he treats me. Am I paranoid? I am also starting to have my hair falling ...OMG and doctors say it is stress-related. It does not help my self-esteem. I have always had a beautiful heathy hair....sorry guys I am just venting here!!!!
Everyone says that I am pretty and intelligent but I don't feel it at all....Please help me figure out what went wrong and how to fix it