Re: my ex gf says she not into me and never likes me-why do she call me 10 times a da
hey stacy, we in the same exact situation though my issue is with a girl.. Its hard to let go. I am kind of weak too when i am attached to someone.. today me and this girl agreed on moving on. This is the only issue evertime i tell her good bye and have a good life she still calls me back like 6 months later. i just drove out to see her this past weekend. Was an awful 2 days. This girl is a high school drop out and smokes cigareetes.. I always got to whine and dine her. I had to sleep in my car when i was there, because her mother dont like me, but its funny because when i call her-her mother tells her oh you husband calling you-meaning me.. I dont know.. This girl is not affectionate or romantic at all.. I need someone that is very romantic and affectionate. I want a emotional person, because thats who i am.. Its crazy because i wanted to kiss this girl, so i had to grab her around her stomach and she kind of pushed away and then i kissed her for a minute.. Her lips are so small that is never seems like she kisses back.. Later on that night i asked her how she felt when i kissed her, she said it gave her butterflies, but check it she never acts upon these emtions.. She never holds my hand or ever kisses me.. I got to make all the moves.. When you in love aren't you supposed to kiss your partner a lot and be romantic.. SHe tells me she not the romantic type.. I thought all woman are emotional and affectionate.. Or is she just saying she not romantic because she not into me.. Then once i left i said i love you and she said something back that i asked her through text messages later on and she said she loved me back but very low. This is the thing she dont act like she loves me... No affection or romantic ways towards me.. I had to sleep in my car, and when i ask her to go to motel with me she makes up an excuse and said oh her mom-who she lives with doesnt allow her to sleep out the night.. This girl is 20years old for freaken sake.. Then when i kiss her on her neck she goes to me no hickies my mother would scream.. This is sickening.. Then yesterday she wanted tgif fridays, i funded the bill again and out of no where she wanted a margerita alcohol drink.. which did nothing to her, didnt have much liquor in it.. I just dont know what her motive for that was.. DID she want to become drunk because when she drunk she more talkative and more touchy.. The drink didnt even do anything for her.. instead i wasted 70dollars at this restaurant.. Today we said our goodbyes. I dont know for how long this will last without her calling me back.. STacy regarding your issues now i dont like the sound of this story and this other girl being right next to your car when you drop your bf off.. DOnt sound right.. I think that your bf keeps calling you is because its maybe a form of control or attachment related issues.. WE both need to be strong and not let ourselves settle for less.. We to good for these people and they take us for granted. I am always looking for love in the wrong places.. I would love for it to just find me.. That would be the day.. By the way i am 24.. Whats your age?