Originally Posted by Laye
It's not so easy..why does he not take my call? I have not heard back from him. It's very confusing. He is very hot and cold. It's like he is always testing me. I think I just need to give up.
This guy sounds very unstable. Do you really want to put all this energy and time into a guy? Wouldn't you rather find a nice guy who's secure enough within himself to believe you're good enough for him and he's good enough for you and who will pick up the friggin' phone and just ask you out?? It could be that I'm just getting old, but at 43 I just wouldn't have the inclination to play these stupid games. A guy's either into you and emotionally available enough to do something about it or he isn't. If he doesn't have the cajones to come and get you, you have to wonder, what else doesn't he have the cajones for? Is this how he's going to handle all of life's more challenging, difficult or nerve racking moments? If you swoop in and do all the work and convince him to date you, are you going to have to change his diapers all the time? Is that what you really want? If it were me, I'd move on.