Re: Miss him but like living alone??
So he gets to make the rules? Either you move in with him or forget it???
Let me tell you about my story...the guy I was dating years ago told me that he wanted to get married. I was only 20 years old and wanted to wait a few years. He told me that if I didn't agree to get engaged, and marry him within a year, he'd break up with me. Well, I didn't want to break up, so I married him. 12 years later, we are putting our young son through our divorce because we were in no way suited to be living together, let alone married. Our marital problems started 3 months after the wedding.
So, don't go against your gut. This guy sounds a little controlling. And I know, you probably think it's not being controlling, it's just that he loves you so much that he wants you with him all the time. Does he even hear what you're saying when you say you like having your own place? Well, you'd be giving up all you want right now in life to be with him and do what HE wants. Do you truly want that?