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Old 05-09-2009, 11:18 AM   #1
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my girlfriend is ******* me off!

we've been together for 7 months, and when i first told her that i love her, she was so happy and she was like on top of the world.. she was always saying you're the one i always wanted and i really like you.. she was so crazy about me, she used to do anything just to talk to me, and when we talk on msn, she would be like ooh i missed u so much and i was thinking about u all day.. and then after 4 months she told me that she loves me.. ok sooo we were really happy and she used to say i love you all the time.. but then a day came and she was like different and i was like why, she was like i dont wanna rush things between us.. i did respect what she said to me, but the change she did was terrible! she doesnt tell me how much she loves me anymore, she isnt crazy about me like she used to be, i dont knw if she's just trying to hide her feelings for me? anyway so she doesnt says i love you to me all the time, i think she would only say it once a day before she leaves, and she used to be like ooh oppen the ****** ( when we talk on msn ) and now she really doesnt, she's like its up to you.. and like she used to be soo happy when i write her poems, am sure i wrote more than a 100 poems for her, but now she doesnt seem to like them like before, like once i didnt talk to her for like a week and like i wrote her a poem everyday that i didnt talk to her to show her how much i miss her, ok so then when she got her laptop back, she didnt say anything about them! i dont knw why! like on the phone she used to say oh am so bored and i really miss you and things like that, but then i dont knw! :S.. like i really dont get her, sometimes i would write her love letters and she would only say to me " i love you too " and thats it! i write a freakin LOVE LETTEr and she gives me 4 words?? what the hell! like i try to be there for her all the time and do whatever she wants! i always ask her if she needs any help and i never ever leave a day without saying goodnight to her and i love you.. i talked to her about it and i was like u dont tell me how u feel about me and how much u love me anymore, she's like because i have nothing to tell you.. she's like i feel the same way as i used to be.. i dont knw what to do.. i even made her a website for valentine's day www. * removed * which took me forever to make and i really worked hard on it.. last anniversary i sang a song for her on the phone, she was so happy and she was like thank u i love you, like i can see she means it! but i dont knw whats wrong with her :S and i remember once i was like just kidding and i was like oh u dont love me .. she was like you're stupid.. am like why, she's like because.. am like so u love me ? she's like yeah.. so i really dont knw what the hell is wrong with her.. can u guys help me please? its really making me sad!

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Old 05-09-2009, 11:54 AM   #2
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Re: my girlfriend is ******* me off!

Soultears..I'm sorry you are having a hard time. Sounds like she's playing mind games with you. If you don't mind me asking, what are your ages? Do you live together?

 
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Re: my girlfriend is ******* me off!

we're both 16.. and i'm in america right now so its a long distance relationship.. though am coming back in a month..

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Re: my girlfriend is ******* me off!

She is either playing games with you or she has SIMPLY FOUND someone else. At her age, she is not looking to be in a serious relationship. Most 16 years olds want attention and constantly have crushes. That is very normally and its unfortunate that THAT is the case here.

I think she may have taken advantage of your good nature. She seems like she is stepping all over you. You have shown her that you truly care about her by singing her a song, creating a website etc. She knows how you really feel and she probably thinks she can pretty much get away with whatever and its still going to be okay because you "love her"

I would tell her you dont appreciate being jerked around and MEAN IT. To tell you the truth, my sister is 16 and all her friends do stupid stuff like this all the time. She tells me all kinds of crazy MEANINGLESS stuff girls in her schools do. Alot of girls will have "boyfriends" then when they start getting attention from elsewhere... they love it. So they start talking to other boys while they are still with their boyfriends. They keep their boyfriends around just to see if things with the other guy will work out or not. Sometimes they just want attention elsewhere. To be frank, she sounds bored. It seems like she got tired of all the attention you are giving her. She has taken you for granted -- personally that what it sounds like to me. She doesnt seem to be putting forth any effort to talk to you and address the "change" in your relationship.

 
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Re: my girlfriend is ******* me off!

It sounds like your entire relationship has been via online and phone, is that true? Have you ever spent time with her in real life?

 
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