Re: Jealous. Someone likes my girlfriend.
It doesn't sound like she is keeping anything from you. She is keeping it all out in the open, which is what you're supposed to do. Your gf is one of those rare people who is honest with you, you should be really grateful for that! Do you realize how many people in relationships don't know something is going on until its too late?
If I were you, I'd only be upset if she didn't tell you what's going on. Now that she told you on her own without you having to prod her, you know she is not doing anything wrong. Furthermore, her saying that she is taking steps to prevent sending mixed messages, that's even more reason for you to be glad.
Yeah its ok to be annoyed at the other woman but don't get annoyed with your gf. She is handling this a lot better than a ton of other people would.
Don't let your insecurity drive her away. She doesn't have to put up with it. Just realize she picked you, she is with you, and that's what matters.