Re: Jelaousy of past and confused about recent
Yeah, I don't think you're being jealous, I think you have a right to be suspicious. Now, to be fair, from your post, it sounds like you asked "is she the one you had to break up with to be with me exclusively?" and he said "She only dates men of this other race." Is that right? So he never actually said he dated her. BUT...it is strange that she would have stuff of his from years and years ago, that he would actually still want. He's claiming he knew her in high school Irst he tells you he dated her several years ago, then he says he "barely knew her," and knew her in HIGH SCHOOL, she's been with someone else and has had kids, and most likely has moved a couple of times since high school, but just now found whatever it was she gave back to him? AND decided it was important enough to contact him again to give it back? That's weird.
Then he gets overly defensive and accuses you of being jealous when you catch onto his inconsistencies. Yeah, he's hiding something.