Starting a relationship long-distance
I've recently had two 'fails' in terms of new relationships where i've met amazing girls, in different cities. The problem i've had is that these relationships have started long-distance to start with, not started local and become long-distance, and thats made it really difficult to build any trust, momentum, and connection more than initial attraction (as often its 3-4wks between each date!).
I also think that i'm not secure enough in myself to handle starting a relationship long-distance.... and maybe would be better finding someone locally (which is hard work!) as whenever ive started something long distance - a lot of my demons come to bite me, and insecurities manifest as jealousy, clingyness, and so forth (which never happens when they're local)
is it possible that long-distance relationships just dont work for some people?