So I've only been with my boyfriend for 2 months, but was with him before a little under two years ago. Everything started off perfect, he said all the right things, did all the right things, made me feel on top of the world. I'm completely comfortable around him with just about everything, he knows my secrets, I know most of his. But he continuously does things that I've told him bother me. He's constantly texting his ex of over a year, never puts down the phone, which always makes me feel like I'm still coming up after her. For example, the other evening he took me to 'the view' for a bit of a romantic getaway. We sat outside of the car, arms around me, then we went back in. This is when he decides to tell me there was another reason he wanted to go; his ex was in the car behind us. Apparently he wanted to **** her off, but just ****** off the guy she was with. Then ended up staying out til 4 in the morning with his ex, just the three of us. Yet i've told him soooo many times that she makes me uncomfortable. But all he has to say is "she's just a friend."... who's still completely in love with him and will not stop. So i constantly bring up how she bothers me, and that just pisses him off. I can't get over the fact that they were together for over a year, and that he still has to talk to every day about all his problems, even us.
Also, it seems like every time we fight, no matter what it was about, it comes back to me, and i end up taking the blame for it. It makes me feel like i'm constantly doing something wrong and pushing him away.
How do i stop making my boyfriend mad by making mountains out of mole hills?
nothing i do seems to be right.
Last edited by cadie; 04-04-2010 at 06:33 PM.