Re: Seeing the inappropriate "friend" this weekend
The day turned out to be pretty good. My boyfriend (I could tell) was making a good effort make it a good day for us. We started out by leaving the house two hours before the event, so that we (just the two of us) could go to the park that is near the event, sit by the creekside and enjoy the sun and each others company before we went. It gave us a nice oppertunity to connect.
When we got to the event, we greeted Dawn. She was cordial, and not overly anything towards my boyfriend. I don't know if she was trying to be on her best behavior (and hide any emotion) or is she truly was indifferent that we were even there. But at this point I'll give her the benefit of the doubt.
Honestly, after the event, I had the impression the "depth" of their so called friendship and any mental attachement may be more in my boyfriends head than in hers. Either that or like I said, she is a brilliant actess playing off being very cool with me and showing no affection at all to my boyfriend. If it is more in his head than anything real I see no real threat unless he became delusional or fixed on it. I am thinking it to be more of built up thing in his head, telling himself he is/was important to her in some way.
Thanks for reading. That's it! (I hope!)
Last edited by meg4; 04-14-2010 at 11:09 AM.