I have been with my girlfriend for a year now and we are so very happy. She started telling me about her past the other day and it made her very upset. She told me that she had very low self-esteem in her teenage years. She told me she lost her virginity at 15 to a stranger in a park. Another time she went to the pub and had sex with some random guy. Then she had a bf and another bf after that. Then there is me.
I love her so much and she loves me. She is not the same girl anymore and is very ashamed of her past. I told her that I love her for the woman she is today.
She said that she had low self esteem and whenever she had sex with these people she never had any pleasure from it, she hated it. She told me she only started liking sex and feeling pleasure since me and her have been together....she said the thing that was missing with the other guys was love.
Love she has for me.
I told her i still love her and want to be with her. She is a completely different person now. She said her past hurts her. I sometimes get sad about how she would have sex with those two strangers. Cos i value intercourse and waited for the right person.
She tells me shes ashamed and wishes i was her first.....i need to get over all this, at the same time let her know I am not judging her and i love her.
--today, she has a great job, loved by everyone and is well thought of by everyone.
Last edited by AustralianKing; 04-13-2010 at 05:20 AM.