Does this, during sex, mean anything?
Okay, so my boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years. We are very happy and have a very healthy sex life... but lately I have noticed that he calls me "girl" during sex a lot. He used to call me by my name, or honey, or baby... and he still does sometimes, but he says "girl" a lot more than anything else, and a lot more than he used to. Should I be bothered by this? Is he trying to "depersonalize" sex, or is this just a word that he is using and I should not think twice about it? I guess it makes me feel a little disconnected, like I am just a "girl", and not the endearing words that he used to say. Am I just being emotional about this and taking it wrong? Or does this change probably mean something?
I spoke to him about it, and he said that it did not mean anything- but the next time we had sex, he did it some more! I just dont get it, it seems as though he is trying to imagine that it is someone different or something, which is weird because we have a very active sex life.