not sure whether to put this in here or in the depression threads.
i'm 30 and have a bf who is a little bit younger than me, we have a nearly one year old and my 9 year old from a previous relationship.
i'm not sure whats happening to me but i find myself starting to get very insecure about our relationship. i have no rational reason to but i can't seem to find any good points about myself. this is not usual for me. i'm not sure whether it has something to do with PND or past r/ships but it is killing me!!
i love my partner very much, we've been together over 2 years and i always think he's up to no good or he's going to leave or something ridiculous.
how do i stop this? my snarky comments are going to ruin us but i get so defensive, i just cant help myself
any help/advice would be great, thanks.