Hey everyone! To those that have followed me from the beginning should know my situation. To recap, I was with someone for 2 years who I've should've dumped when he invited his ex gf to stay for the weekend and invited her to go to an event that he had invited me. This was 3 months into our relationship. Long story short, he broke up with me about 4 months ago (I think) for another girl. Yes I know. I find this as an experience for me to grow into a better person and that I shouldn't let the stuff he did to me go easy. I learn now that when somebody does that to you, it's right for me to break-up with that person. I was in-love and I was blinded by love. Now he broke up with that gurl after a month and now dating another gurl.
ANYWAYS, this is not what this post is about. I'm talking to this guy right now that I just met this past Sunday at a festival. He's one of my friend's good friends and that's how we met. Now, he looks like a player but I'm not sure. He knows how to dress, he works out (which means he has a nice body), spiky hair, cute smile, the whole shabang! He's Italian and quite intelligent (in some ways). He loves art and so do I. We have a lot of the same interest.
Since Sunday when my friend trying to be the match maker, he added me on ******** the next morning. We started talking on there and he gave me his number so we can text. Ever since then, he has been texting me all day (literally). He even calls me at night, every night
so far! We're planning a date but not sure when but he seems like a smooth talker. He would say that I'm so cute and that he wishes he had talked to me more at the festival (because I only talked to him for a like a minute since he got there late). He also brought up I think last night "Are we talking in any way or how do you view this whole situation? Just wanted to know" and I told him that I just see we're trying to get to know each better and he said he agrees and that he feels the same way. He does joke around with me a lot and he calls me "hun". I think he started saying that because I called him "Love" but I call everybody that haha.
So do you guys think he's a player? Trying to spit some game on me? I haven't done anything to lead him on but be myself. Sometimes I try to play hard to get but answering his text late or when he calls, I don't pick it up and wait for a little bit.
But I mean, he seriously text me the minute he gets up from work and text me until he goes to bed. We would talk on the phone in between of the day. I don't know. I am confused because players know how to play. We do send each other pictures from time to time from work or school. PG rated pictures haha. Do you guys think he's a player?
BTW: I'm not trying to be in a relationship and right now, my wall is up as high as it could. Right now, I'm just focusing on me and just have fun dating around because I am ready for that. I asked him if he's looking for a relationship or a fling and he said definitely not a fling but he does want a relationship. He said that he's not trying to find a relationship and that you can't force a relationship to happen... you just have to let it be and go with the flow. Pretty much he's leaving it up to fate to find his girl. Does that sound like a player to you?