Re: is normal that sometimes you feel hate your husband?
You odn't say how old the baby is. Children can cause alot of work for the mom. Do you think you may have a touch of posts partum depression? It can occur even when the baby is several months old. The stress of the baby and the additional work just pile up.
I agree with the other posters, Marriage isn't all fun and games and flowers and wine. With children it's hard work, sleepless nights, fatigue, spit up clothes....and then your hubby coms home clean and happy and you look at him with daggers in your eyes. Right? Ask him to watch the baby and you take a Sat. and spend it on you. Your attitude should improve and your hubby will get a taste of being a mom!
I bet down deep you don't want to leave. But it just doesn't seem fair some days..and it isn''t, but that's part of motherhood in the beginning!
hang in there and work on your marriage and ask your hubby for help. He can't read your mind..and I hope he pitches in and helps....