Hi. I met this girl on the internet 10 months ago and we didn't meet until about 3 months ago. We went out and hit it off and started seeing each other once a week. She told me at the start that she is not ready for a relationship/dating but still went out with me. And until 3 weeks ago, everything was fine until she told me that she still likes me and is interested, but doesn't want to date me, because she feels as if I am her boyfriend and it's too soon. I haven't talked to her for almost a month and don't know what to do. I miss her a lot and wish things were different. What do you guys think?
Last edited by MarbleKnight; 06-07-2010 at 07:56 PM.
I am wondering how old you are guys. Anyway, there doesn't seem much for you to do in this case. Move on. Find things to do, meet other people. Either she is not really into you, or playing hard to get. Time will tell. But it may be too late for her, because then you will be "miles away."
We are in our 20s and I realize that she said that, but she was still willing to see me every week. I'm just so confused at all of this.
Unfortunately, seeing you every week doesn't mean she is serious or ready for long term, serious or commitment. I used to date guys I would see every week even when I wasn't ready to commit to anyone. I don't mean to imply this realtionship is doomed, afterall she COULD change her mind. Its just that she told you up front what her intentions were (and weren't).
Last edited by River rocks; 06-10-2010 at 11:59 AM.