Originally posted by someguyinhis20s: |
Well it sounds like she may be blowing you off. I have a hard time believing someone could be so busy that they can't make a quick phone call or send an email.
But before you do anything rash, just call her up and ask her if she wants to get together and do something. If she makes an excuse and says she'll call back some other time, then ask why she says she'll call but never does. Make it clear that she's been doing this a lot to you.
I second that. I used to have a former flatmate that moved just about "next door". For almost 10 months now, not ONE fone call nor simple "how r u?" email from her, neither was there a 60s neighbourly visit. Said she would visit/call me but so far, in this 10 mths, zero.
Perhaps if I wasn't timid, I would definitely ask her "by hook or by crook" this: why am I treated like this? i have no clue as to what i might have said or done to deserve this.
It's pretty harsh but in friendship, I believe that there should be a kangaroo court of justice.
I wish u luck in finding the truth.