I agree with everything except the part about emailing his coworkers. That is borderline harrassment/slander. You don't want this A-HOLE to decide to sue you or something for spreading bad reports about him around his workplace. Other than that, he deserves everything he gets! And you should definitely tell him how bad he is in bed! hee hee hee
This is great...YOU GO GIRL! I think the idea of having the fake chic agree to meet him somewhere and standing him up is a great one. Then, when he contacts her and asks why she didn't show she needs to tell him that she wants to send him a pic...then you send your real pic and ask him how he likes you now. Don't even bother talking to him in person or even on the phone. Once he sees the fake girl sending your pic he'll undrestand everything.
I'm loving this.
PS..do you think he'd have the balls to actually go through with meeting her somewhere?
I think that its a good idea that you don't tell him who Becca is at this point. Let him wallow in his misery.. I think if you tell him at this point he might just think you are off your rocker and that he "still has it" and "to think I was doubting me sex appeal"...
It was an air kiss over his lips. Give me A LITTLE credit!!!
Update - he called me after midnight last night on both my home and cell phones - he was just coming back from the football game. I find it doubtful he was calling to ask how my day was; is he THAT disillusioned to think I would say "Come on over????"
I returned his call around 7am (hoping I woke him up) but didn't get him. Told him not to call me after 9pm ever again. He hasn't called me back since.
I am still waiting to have lunch with him and "spill the beans". He's been traveling a lot - or so he says. But he keeps calling late at night and I've just about had it with that. I keep telling him to not call after 9pm, but he does anyway. We all know he's not calling to catch up. You would think he would learn, but he's clearly a tool.
I feel redeemed with my saga. I just want to squash him like a bug now. (kidding!)
I know what you are dealing with I met a guy on the net and he is 22 or so he says I am 32 I have been going through a rough time for while now and dummy me started calling him it was long distance and I still live with my folks for now long story there tooo... anyway I ran up a 500.00 dollar phone bill, he habitually lies, and has faked his death I mean this guy is a freak I agree about going under another name this guy sounds like a lot of these freaky internet creeps I haven't had very much luck with the internet guys I have been raped by one, lied to so many times I can't even begin to tell you.. I feel like such a fool.. I mean he sent me his pic and I swear he looked 18 he probably is he said three weeks ago he was in the hospital my friend calls the hospital and he's not even registered I think he lives in his own fantasy world good luck with this guy if you want someone to talk to I am here..
I think I've totally moved on - I've been dating another guy for several months. Although I would LOVE to crush him by telling him what a lousy lay he was, if the opportunity presents itself, I'll take it, otherwise, I just chuckle about the whole thing.
From now on, I'm requiring a complete psychological evaluation, credit report, referrals from his last 3 g'friends, and background check before a 3rd date.
The opportunity to write for a magazine is a great chance to pursue something I've always wanted to do part-time. Thanks to him, I've got some great material to get started.
I'm a firm believer in making lemonade out of lemons. I've learned to be a lot less believing in the beginning and go with my head and my gut instinct.
I understand how you feel I am going to start going with my gut instinct as well its the only way to be I have been so gulible and stupid but not anymore good luck with this new guy again thats cool you are from Atlanta I miss ga sometimes..
I married a jerk like this one, you describe, but didn't know he was a jerk until a year into the marriage. No matter how much evidence you throw in his face he will deny it all, and blame it back on you.
I bought internet spyware, and found out how much a Don Juan my husband was.
I threw him out, expecting it to teach him a lesson. He lied to me about why his first marriage didn't work out. He said it was money issues, but it was fidelity issues. Guess you can't teach a old dog new tricks. He didn't learn anything and he doesn't care. He just lives life with the motto, "IF IT WORKS OUT, SO BE IT, IF IT DOESN'T, SO BE IT".
He has never called me once to try to straighten out the mess he made of our marriage. Men like that are just no good.