I married a jerk like this one, you describe, but didn't know he was a jerk until a year into the marriage. No matter how much evidence you throw in his face he will deny it all, and blame it back on you.
I bought internet spyware, and found out how much a Don Juan my husband was.
I threw him out, expecting it to teach him a lesson. He lied to me about why his first marriage didn't work out. He said it was money issues, but it was fidelity issues. Guess you can't teach a old dog new tricks. He didn't learn anything and he doesn't care. He just lives life with the motto, "IF IT WORKS OUT, SO BE IT, IF IT DOESN'T, SO BE IT".
He has never called me once to try to straighten out the mess he made of our marriage. Men like that are just no good.