| | need to confess!
I have been married 6 years, two years into the marriage my husband gets a new job that requires him to be away from home all week, and comes home only on weekends. Anyways, When he did come home he would spend alot of his time with his friends. He would take the kids and I to dinner and an early movie, then we would come home and his friends would arrive and stay till very late. This has usually been the pattern. My husband tends to be very cold towards the kids ages 2 and 5 and I too feel that I need more affection from his part. He shows no interest in going to places that I need to go and usually lets me go on my own. Eight months ago, I met this guy to whom I felt very attracted. He flirted with me each time I saw him. One time I called him at work and we started talking.(found out he was married too) The next day we went out and I had a great time.(By the way I had never done this before, while being married) I've been seeing this guy since then because he makes me feel so special he seems so caring, something that I wish I would see in my husband. I know I did wrong, but I haven't felt this happy in a long time. My husband finally got a local job and I will no longer be able to see this guy, but I still feel grateful for the times we've spent together. My husband's friends are still coming around all the time or calling on the phone. I've tried telling him to be more affectionate towards us, but I think it runs in his family, his dad is the same way. Anyways, I needed to let this out Thanks for listening and I hope you understand.