I know what you are going through, to a certain degree. Of course I don't know exactly, but I can relate. I've been dealing with personal issues, like depression, eating disorders, etc. for a loooooooong time, and i am now in a VERY serious relationship. During the first while that we had gotten together, maybe like the first week, I thought he was going to magically make it all go away, but before i knew it, it was controlling me again. Things have gone downhill, oh the arguements! THE ABSOLUTE PAIN in my heart, it hurts already because i am trying to deal with this, but now, i have someone else so special in my life, it is even worse. He is no longer sexually satisfied(if ever) and so many other problems!