Update - Relationship Health Message Board

jasmine30 · 12-19-2002, 05:29 AM

Hello,
I just wanted to update everyone.The man I love came to me and told me things aren't looking up for him and his young sweet thing.He just turned 30 and is ready to settle down and make a life.He is so lonely and she wont go see him.I would be there in a heartbeat if I had the money.Iam waiting so patiently,I hope he knows how I feel about him.Im keeping my fingers crossed that he'll come see my in February.He knows Iam here to offer him support when he needs it.What should I do,should I continue supporting him when he asks for advice?Please your tips!

Love to all,
Jasmine

MonsterBiceps · 12-19-2002, 06:45 AM

I'm going to say it again. Stop dating all of your ex-boyfriends/fiances. They are no good for you. Start over and stop waiting for them. You are wasting your life. You are still so young. You could be seeing someone who is so much better and more stable.

But if you are a drama queen and like sharing your boyfriends with other women, then keep it up.

Sorry if this is mean, but your messages are really frustrating to me.

jasmine30 · 12-19-2002, 07:06 AM

Hi,
Thanks for your advice,however Iam in no way a"drama"queen.It just so happens that I love my ex more than anything in this World and I will do ANYTHING to be with him.If it dont work out for us again,sure I will be hurt but I will make the best of it.If my messages frustrate you,then dont read OR answer them..

Have a good day!

Pinkroses · 12-19-2002, 08:12 AM

Try just being his friend for now. He knows how you feel about him so don't push the issue of having a relationship with him. See what happens. But don't depend on him only. Keep your options open to meet other guys. Remember, you want a relationship with someone that is interested in you, not with someone who shows no interest in other then getting advice from you. Take care and Merry Christmas!!

jasmine30 · 12-19-2002, 08:17 AM

Hi Pinkroses,
Thats what Iam doing.He knows he can be open with me or talk to me about anything and have my support.I know he still cares about me but taking it slowly for the time being.He is interested in me for more than relationship advice.We spend time together everyday.Merry Christmas to you too!

Jasmine