Ive got to say something here. Im a 20 year old who used to smoke pot back in my early Collage days and when i met my G/F, she was just like how your describing yourself, no drinking, no smoking, no drugs no late nights - a Good Girl.
Now i feel you CAN change someone, or better said, INFLUENCE them. I dont drink to get drunk anymore, i hardly do pot, on very RARE occasions so in some senses shes changed me for the better. In turn ive openned hr up to what going out partying is all about, got her ****ed for the first time just to show her what its about, and will probably in the near future smoke some pot with her JUST to OPEN her eyes as to what it is. Fair enough you have your opinion and i respect that, but do remember it is a 2x way thing, if you expect them to change, dont be so hard on them. Listen to them when they talk about it, times they've done it, what they feel, etc. You may not like it, but at least you get a hell of a lot more respect from them than just saying NOPE, NEVER AGAIN, BYE BYE.
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