Please help I'm so confused (it's high drama)
Please help! Sorry this is sooo long, but this is the SHORT version!
I had been dating this boy for a little over a month. When we first went out he seemed cool but on our first date he drank a lot then, by the second date he was calling me his girlfriend. He would always ask me to be his girl but I made it clear that I would like to take things slow.
After a while he told me that he didn't think that I cared about hime because I never called him and he felt like he was the one to initiate contact. So I started to call him. the first time I did he said that it made him feel special. then he started not answering when I called. then he started telling me that he would call back and then he wouldn't. One night after he'd promised to show up and didn't I called him and told him not to call me anymore because I couldn't handle being lied to. I asked him wheere he was and why he didn't call and he told me that he thought that we were moving too fast!
I asked him how that could be when he kept tekking me he loved me and I said that it was too soon. He had no response. We didn't talk for about a week then I called to apologize for telling him never to call again and to tell him that I didn't mean it. He too apologized for not calling and told me that he wanted to see me and take me out the next day.
The next day came and no call three days later he called and then in the mid. of conversation he hung up for no apparent reason. I called him back and I asked him why he was playing games and he got frustrated and hung up again.
later after a few drinks at the local lounge I called to finally have it out. when he came over to my place he was acting like nothing happened. Finally I asked him why he didn't like me and why he was treating me the way that he was and he said that we weren't compatible and then he went on to state every cliche break up line i.e; you'll find someone who'll make you happy and make them a beautiful wife, it's not you it's me, I'm not looking for a girlfriend, we can still be friends It was awful! then I asked why he kept telling me he loved me and wanted to be my boyfriend and he said: "Well, sometimes I say things that I don't mean and i guess you just took me seriously." then he left I guess I'm just asking what on earth happened. |