Griffy

This is hilarious. I'm going to meet a girl of whom I've been talking to over the Internet for quite some time now at 6:00. We're going out to dinner and then we're going to take it from there. So who knows what the night has in store.

I've done this countless times. It's fun & interesting. I have met about 9 people that I've come across on the Internet. 3 of them went on to be relationships of which lasted over 7-8 months & some just didn't work out at all, although we became friends.

The main reason only 3 of them worked was because all of the rest lived so far away. Most lived about 2-3 hours away, so it was hard to develop a foundation for a relationship. The others were in my area, about a half hour to 1 1/2 hour drive.

As far as your problem in aspects to knowing if a girl likes you, we're in the same boat. I'm clueless when it comes to that kind of stuff. I have had girls not give even the slightest clue of liking me, but they really did, and girl's lay it on so thick that they were all over me. Keep your eyes out for physical flirting i.e she puts her hands on you a lot, stands close to you etc. etc. Also, the way she smiles at you. She may smile at your jokes and humor, but, does she smile at 'you'? - for no apparent reason.

When it comes to the introduction, your going to have to play it out when you finally meet that person. I have been in awkward moments, I have been in very strong physical attraction moments. One girl of which I met just started kissing me the second we said hello. Then again, we had talked online & on the phone for just about a year, so we had a strong sense of what one another was like.

Just be yourself & don't lie over the Internet. Unless your one good BS'er and can back up anything she throws at you of which was a lie over the computer, your screwed. A good quality to have is being able to break the ice in a good, humorous way. Better yet, start off with a compliment. Be CONFIDENT!

I usually hold out my hand as were walking up to eachother as if I wanted the shake her hand. Then I pull her in, kiss her on the cheek and tell her how good she looks. Maybe make a funny comment i.e. "Damn, you didn't look THIS good in the chatroom"

I'm not being cocky at all, but it's not hard for me to grab the attention of most people, just with my looks. So I'm confident in that department. I usually get something along the lines of "Wow, I'm impressed". So if your like me, your going to have to let your true character shine and take your focus off of trying to be some sexy guy (Not saying you have to try & be better then you are if you don't have the looks.) Don't try & impress her, just be yourself. if that alone impresses her, your doing a great job!