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Old 04-14-2003, 09:09 PM   #1
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This is a lightweight question...but just wanted your opinion. I went out with this girl one time. We had a good time and she seems very cool. Now I've been busy for the past two weeks after the first meeting. She knows that I've been unavailable. But I called to make the second date tonight- and she asked me what I was doing on Saturday. I really didn't have any plans yet, but I'd rather not go out with her on Saturday night to this club as I've just met her. I told her that I really hadn't thought about what I was doing on Saturday and made a date for a week day.

I feel like I should have made something more active up for Saturday instead of what I said. Something like I'm doing this or that or have plans to...

You see what I'm saying? Just your opinion would be cool...I'd like to know for next time- perhaps she thinks I don't have much to do on Saturday based on what I told her?

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Why are you so hesitant to date her on a Saturday evening? I'm not sure what this woman does for a living, but it's very hard to focus on a date in the middle of the week when your thoughts are on what needs to be done at the office. I would MUCH rather go out on a weekend where I can stay out late, relax a bit, and not think so much about what I need to do the following day.

At this point, I would suggest doing the weekday date. If it goes well, I would say something like "hey, I was able to free up my Saturday evening....what do you say we hit that club you were talking about?" That way you are making a concerted effort to listen to her schedule/plans, which women like!

I can tell you personally....if a guy scheduled a date on a weeknight for me because he was "unsure of whether he had plans or not," I would feel like I wasn't important enough to save his weekends for. I would MUCH rather go out on the weekend so I could focus on him and feel like a priority, but those are just my own opinions.

 
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Sounds to me like your just not ready to go clubbin' with her yet, wanting to get to know her a little better first. Don't see a problem in that

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Clubs are very noisy places. A little difficult to hold a conversation and get to know each other in a club. Let her know you don't have anything against clubbing, make a few other suggestions for a night out and schedule the clubbing for another weekend.

 
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Why does Saturday night have to include this club? Why not take her out to dinner instead, and a more intimate, quieter place for drinks afterward?

 
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