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tomzz · 04-17-2003, 03:35 PM

hey i just wanna know what you have to do to get girls to like you. I try to stand out and be funny so girls will like me but it usually doesnt work and if they do im to shy to get into them. Like once i was at a party and this really hot girl kept coming up to me and starting conversations and i would just answer her and sorta walk away cuz i was shy. One of my friends finds a girl he likes and then goes after her and does what ever he has to do to get them to like him and they always like him. I dont get it alot of girls say i look alot better than him and im nicer and sweeter but does that really matter? because he is always doing what ever he has to just so he can get a girl.

So my question is what should i do to get girls to like me and if i see a girl that i like what should i do?

maryett · 04-17-2003, 06:17 PM

I don't think the problem is that girls don't like you - sounds like they already do.

As for what to do next, it might help to watch how your friends do it and then copy their moves.

tomzz · 04-17-2003, 06:22 PM

hey thanks for the advice ill try that and see wat happens

HoosierBj · 04-17-2003, 08:31 PM

Another thought is that maybe you're just not ready to be in a relationship yet.
Sometimes when you're really in a place emotionally to be dating it will seem a whole lot easier!
There is alot of emphasis on being "involved" - maybe if you give yourself the option NOT to date you will feel more relaxed. In the meantime, you could even try volunteering at a humane shelter, or a hospital - you may even meet someone you feel comfortable with at a volunteer job!

Girlie19 · 04-17-2003, 08:41 PM

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Originally posted by tomzz:
[B]Like once i was at a party and this really hot girl kept coming up to me and starting conversations and i would just answer her and sorta walk away cuz i was shy. [B]

I think it's your shyness that's the problem. If you walk away every time a girl tries to talk to you how do you expect to have a girfriend? She probably figured you weren't interested.