feeling like throwing up - Relationship Health Message Board

Rosie20 · 06-20-2003, 09:21 AM

I hate relationship problems... I just came from my bf's house, both of us in tears b/c things aren't going well. It seems so obvious to let go, but I can't. I love him. But I feel so awful inside, like I have no control, I'm completely alone... I just really want to go far far away, or be with him.

It's like things are totally irrepairable. I can't figure it out... how did it get this way? What do I do? how do I get past this? I just want to cry all the time... please, please, please. Make this STOP!!!! I hate feeling this vulnerable, this weak, this hurt. I'm sorry, but I have no one else to turn to.

wilted_rose · 06-20-2003, 09:32 AM

Rosie,
I am truly sorry that you're hurting so bad and I can totally sympathize with your pain. It is hard when you love someone so much, but at the same time, you're running into major problems which in return puts a wedge between you two.

Do you guys communicate on solutions that can try and improve your relationship? Or, does it usually end up in arguments?

You didn't really give any basis what's going on in the relationship and why you two aren't getting along. Maybe some feedback could allow someone to give you some helpful advice. (((hugs)))

SophiaM · 06-20-2003, 09:33 AM

Rosie, I can imagine how you feel. I feel pretty much the same right now: want to escape somewhere far away or just be with the guy I love. Unfortunately, neither is a possible option. Why do things have to be so complicated? What can I say. It will get better with time, though I know how hard it is to wait. Don't lose hope, hang in there, if it's meant to be, everything will fall into place. Just have faith. Take care and remember, you're not alone!
Sophia

dustbunnys_baby · 06-20-2003, 09:43 AM

Here is a biiiiiig hug comin all Ya'lls way!

I think we all need one every now and again. I hate relationship problems too. they make me crazy

But in the end you will

dance. I am sorry for all ya'lls pain. Love Sunnie

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Life may grab you by the horns if you don't grab it first!

Audrey-B · 06-20-2003, 10:16 PM

Why is it that some females can just walk away from a bad relationship without a second thought, while for others it can take months and even years to be able to completely leave.

Nobody can make the decisions for you unfortunately, but i hope you guys find the strength and courage to do what makes you happy and hope this happens very soon