Hey Melanie!
Thanks for your very nice and complimentary post to me! I'm sorry to hear you're dealing with fibromyalgia...I understand it's a very fatiguing and often misunderstood health issue. Hope you've found a good doctor who treats you well. I know you don't think of yourself as creeping crud, but having a disease that causes fatigue, pain and the other things that go along with it, well I can surely understand how you came up with that name, and it is catchy!
BTW, I, too, appreciate good grammar (if I were mean-spirited, I would offer to proofread those cousins' replies before they submit them

and I also feel it is much more a reflection of a person than their user name
Well, I'm heading there right now to, shall we say...let them have it (my reply that is!) I don't really judge people by their user name--I just threw that in because I knew it would rile him up--and it did, and because of that, look how much more info was disclosed! Manipulating, maybe...but if it brings out the real problem, well...what can I say?
Thanks again for your compliment. I have seen your replies to many posts on here, and you seem to have a very realistic view of the world, relationships and health in general. Keep it up, I've found it very satisfying to have come here with my own concerns and then to find that I've not only rec'd help from others, but have possibly helped someone else in the course of things.
Keep offering the good advice I've seen you post so many times on here as well, and take care...Annie.