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Old 09-22-2003, 05:04 PM   #1
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My husband and I have a three year old daughter, and I am read to have another one but he isn’t I have been waiting for about a year and now I just hound him every day. About three months ago I got pregnant and I had a miscarriage. Now more than ever I want another one, but now he is pulling out. Should I keep hounding him or should I let it go for a while? Has any one went through a similar situation with there spouse?

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He maybe scared since you have had one miscarriage and he watched you go through that. He could very easily not want to put you in that kind of pain again. The only way he knows how to do that is to trya dn make sure you dont get pregnant again. Though I have to say the pull out method isnt that great of a way to avoid it.

Youa nd him need to sit down and talk calmly like adults. Dont bug him just talk. Let him know how you feel and then make sure you find out how he feels.
If that doesnt work then suggest marriage counseling so you both can have an unbiased person help you both deal with this.
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