2 Guys...one boyfriend, the other...HOT!!!! - Relationship Health Message Board

blondebabe26 · 09-24-2003, 01:35 PM

Okay, so heres my situation. I've been with my boyfriend for all together a year and 3 months, we broke up after 9 months because of lots of fights and I started to think this other guy is adorable. My boyfriend is like my bestfriend, he's awesome and I couldnt imagain my life without him. PROBLEM...In the 3 months that we were broken up for, the other guy...(HOT GUY)...him and I hooked up and then he went away for 7 weeks and my boyfriend and I started seeing eachother during that time. My boyfriend and I got back together and everythings been fine. But now the other guys keeps coming back into my life...and the thing is that I have SOOOO much fun with my "friend" (hot guy!) I've never had so much fun before with anyone. HOT GUY and I flirt a lot, but I coulnt imagain not having my boyfriend in my life...I feel so bad about it. I feel aweful. Can anyone give me advice?

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*blonde babe*

roni624 · 09-24-2003, 02:20 PM

Better make up your mind soon or you may be left with neither one of them. Looks like you have some hard thinking to do ahead of you. I wish you luck.-Roni

stolie · 09-26-2003, 09:32 PM

Pick one and live with the consequences. Those who try to have it both ways, from what I've seen on this board and in life, end up with nothing in the end.

alwaystan · 10-01-2003, 08:32 PM

Problem is it is very hard to make a "final" decision. If you decide to stay with your boyfriend you will miss flirting, hanging out and having fun with hot guy. If you break up with your boyfriend to be with hot guy you will miss your boyfriend.

Been on both sides of this scenario and it sucks! Only advice I can give you is weigh the consequences of your decision very carefully before you make it and do your best to stick with it.

dsheldon3 · 10-01-2003, 08:49 PM

Don't pick either.Just stay friends with them both.Let them deal with it.They both probably see other women anyway that you will never know about until the day you pick one and get emotionally involved ,then they will dump you for the other woman.