I am having a problem. My girlfriend and I have been dating for a little over 2 years now. One of our biggest fights that we've had in the past, more than once, is about how she wants me to change. She complains that I say I am going to do things and don't follow through; and that I am lazy. She says that she is trying to change my "behaviors" not who I am. So the last time we got into this fight she broke up with me for like a few hours, we had a talk, I promised I would change (woops) and we got back together. So obviously the issue is coming up again because I am still who I am and she obviously has a problem with it.
I get that she is trying to help me change into a better person but I am tired of feeling like my girlfriend doesn't accept me for who I am. Last night she told me that she doesn't even know what positives she is getting out of our relationship that she couldn't get if we were just friends.
I feel like this is the breaking point and I don't know what to do. There are things about me I'd like to change but it doesn't happen overnight and she expects that.